tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5472204946386631254.post6732245388402766568..comments2024-02-15T04:21:03.419-06:00Comments on Moving Kids to Mexico: Differences in Kid PhilosophiesFrankly Rondahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03214064414695951062noreply@blogger.comBlogger12125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5472204946386631254.post-50135766020791235222009-03-15T23:45:00.000-05:002009-03-15T23:45:00.000-05:00You are so right about the sensitivity sweep that ...You are so right about the sensitivity sweep that has taken over parenting. My kids love learning that they did not do something right and learning from it.Rosas Clan in Tulumhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10264493777912893859noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5472204946386631254.post-56615696166692267762009-03-15T23:37:00.000-05:002009-03-15T23:37:00.000-05:00S - Thanks for your thoughts on Pay for Performanc...S - Thanks for your thoughts on Pay for Performance - also of interest to me as an HR professional.<BR/><BR/>OMT - The kids enjoyed soccer in the US so it will be interesting to see the developments here ...Frankly Rondahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03214064414695951062noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5472204946386631254.post-44679531272044692372009-03-14T11:37:00.000-05:002009-03-14T11:37:00.000-05:00I am so happy your kids are able to play futbol an...I am so happy your kids are able to play futbol and enjoy the experience! The World Cup in 2010 is the most watched sporting event in the world!!! It will be a great experience for you all if you are still in Mexico.... Especially if Mexico can pick up their game!!!!I'm a soccer/futbol fanatic! I have a younger brother who played in Spain, and a grandfather who played professionally...It's in my blood!ElleCancunhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09225343993129134601noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5472204946386631254.post-14727155268666567682009-03-14T10:15:00.000-05:002009-03-14T10:15:00.000-05:00http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Roman_salutehttp://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Roman_saluteBob Mrotekhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15016079751197723749noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5472204946386631254.post-58444858121602593272009-03-14T01:43:00.000-05:002009-03-14T01:43:00.000-05:00AMM -- Our company has a "pay for performance" sys...AMM -- Our company has a "pay for performance" system. It has its fault, but it appears to reward high performers and to give an economic incentive to others to improve their performance. My generation loves it. Especially the attorneys. But the young employess are a bit confused. They do not understand why everyone is not paid the same -- and they are confounded that supervisors would suggest that they could be doing better. After all, they were all A students in school. The confusion can probably be traced to soccer matches and grade school projects where everyone is a winner. It is kind, but it is not realistic. It also ends up confusing being nice with being good. Thank you for the thoughtful commentary.Steve Cottonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00468378507171761868noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5472204946386631254.post-61540867789128150222009-03-13T23:21:00.000-05:002009-03-13T23:21:00.000-05:00C - We are thrilled that the kids are wanting to p...C - We are thrilled that the kids are wanting to play futbol. It gives them another avenue to explore the Spanish Language and even more importantly be part of a sport so important in Mexico. It also provides a touchpoint to expand their social relationships with their Mexican friends.<BR/><BR/>In the USA, parenting has gone a bit over the top in making sure nobody has hurt feeelings. While the sentiment is well intended and no one wants to see a disappointed kid - I worry we are raising a generation of kids with unrealistic experiences on what the real world is all about.Frankly Rondahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03214064414695951062noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5472204946386631254.post-63300522258715127072009-03-13T23:17:00.000-05:002009-03-13T23:17:00.000-05:00BM - You are correct that certainly in the Nazi co...BM - You are correct that certainly in the Nazi context we would be offended - even today from white supremacist groups and the like.<BR/><BR/>I talked to Husband after reading your comment. To see what he thought. He views it as the Roman Salute as intended. That is a good thing.<BR/><BR/>I still think we have an opportunity for discussion with the kids. First - to talk to them about how and why it is used in MX and the origins. (Do you know the specific MX history of why used?) And Second - to talk about how it was used in Nazi Germany. Kids should be able to put things in prespective and this will give them concrete examples.<BR/><BR/>Thanks for your thoughts. Dialogue is always good.<BR/><BR/>And yes, it is a very good thing that Husband and I are able to separate intent. Many important symbols are polluted in this world, unfortunately.Frankly Rondahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03214064414695951062noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5472204946386631254.post-10856800497048246022009-03-13T23:07:00.000-05:002009-03-13T23:07:00.000-05:00I am a recent convert to futbal (soccer). Watching...I am a recent convert to futbal (soccer). Watching games with my Mexican buddies feels very similar to watching U.S. football with friends. My amigos seem to have the same competitive energies.<BR/><BR/>You have brought up some interesting comparisons relating to attitude and sportsmanship.Calypsohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02705486544074674388noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5472204946386631254.post-80966263730338850112009-03-13T22:53:00.000-05:002009-03-13T22:53:00.000-05:00AM,I think it is I who should be embarrassed. The ...AM,<BR/>I think it is I who should be embarrassed. The salute that is given in Mexico is the traditional Roman salute that goes back two thousand years. However, in the U.S. in the 1930's and 40's it became associated with Hitler and the Third Reich who were enamored with everything Roman. I perhaps erroneously thought that this salute might be particularly offensive to people of the Jewish faith and confusing to the kids. The fact that it wasn't is a good sign and things in the past should best be left in the past. Please forgive my heavy footed blunder.Bob Mrotekhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15016079751197723749noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5472204946386631254.post-85149336331963490702009-03-13T22:13:00.000-05:002009-03-13T22:13:00.000-05:00BM - Actually you have caught me off guard and I a...BM - Actually you have caught me off guard and I am a bit embarrassed. I see the kids doing the salute but have not thought much about it. I guess I just did what you said and just thought of it as part of Mexico culture.<BR/><BR/>I think perhaps this is a "teachable moment" that has not occurred to me. If you have any of that amazing wealth of information you possess on the meaning in MX to help me - I would welcome the input.Frankly Rondahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03214064414695951062noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5472204946386631254.post-43941724602693868542009-03-13T22:06:00.000-05:002009-03-13T22:06:00.000-05:00This comment has been removed by the author.Frankly Rondahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03214064414695951062noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5472204946386631254.post-65440381829429878732009-03-13T21:56:00.000-05:002009-03-13T21:56:00.000-05:00Reading in between the lines I realize how difficu...Reading in between the lines I realize how difficult it must be for your family to understand much less participate in the Roman salute. Being a veteran and the son of a veteran I felt the same way the first time I experienced it. Nevertheless it is part of the culture that one must accept with an open mind. I am sure that you and your husband and the boys will discuss this and come to some sort of consensus. Thank Goodness that you are a strong, loving, and united family.Bob Mrotekhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15016079751197723749noreply@blogger.com